100%.
Cactus was *so about* respecting my consent that he never did what Korse did. We spent months only not being polyamorous because I wasn't comfortable with it, even when it made him feel trapped.
Roaring always said that I am the one person my grandmother truly loved. She is right.
As for Whatsername's grandma, obviously there's way too much synchronicity between us for her to be any different :3